The reward is a job well done

We need a system that is not based on rewards, stars, allowance, etc. Our firm belief is htat the art of living is something each person does for and within themselves, building an internal reward of a better life. It isnt something that requires outside rewards to accomplish, in fact.... the outside rewards (treats, allowance, etc) actually detract from the real lesson here of "learn to do for yourself and others and feel good about that for what it is".